Membership
This isn’t a club; it’s a room built around her. If these pages have you leaning in—if you want to help make the night happen—introduce yourself. We’re inviting the few who belong: men and women (dominant, bi), and couples who bring presence, capability, and control. Voyeurs with purpose are welcome.
Who We Welcome
Participants
Dominant men and women; confident couples. People who can hold a room, set a tone, and deliver under pressure.
Voyeurs & Patrons
Those who understand that watching is a role, not a default—presence, discretion, and taste matter.
Curators & Specialists
Orchestrators, hosts, photographers, stylists—anyone whose skill raises the voltage and precision of the room.
Logistics & Security
Quiet operators who keep the night tight—timing, movement, thresholds, and transitions.
Locations
Events are primarily hosted in New York and Boston, our established anchor locations. We also maintain the flexibility to organize select gatherings in other cities or private venues as opportunities and member interests align.
Begin the Conversation
Tell us what you bring to the table—your temperament, your skills, your intent. This is an introduction, not an application.
Email us:
- Who you are (name or alias, city)
- Role / archetype (participant, voyeur, dominant, couple, curator, specialist)
- What you bring to the table—energy, experience, or insight
- Availability and travel radius
- Links (FetLife / social / professional, optional)
- Photos (optional, G-rated; face may be blurred). We evaluate presence and fit.